Seth through Jane Roberts
For at no time are any events predestined. There should be no such word in your vocabulary, for with every moment you change, and every heartbeat is an action, and every action changes every other action.
You form the reality that you know, not esoterically, not symbolically, not philosophically. Some great over-soul does not form it for you, you cannot put the burden there either.. You form your reality, and until you understand this completely you cannot change it, nor can you use your freedoms..
To understand yourself and what you are, you [must] learn to experience yourself directly apart from your beliefs about yourself.

We have answered questions before about the true purpose of your life, and whether you should seek the guidance of those who can help you discover what that purpose is. Today we are going to move beyond those previous discussions by answering the question these questions. Are some things “meant to be”? Does everything happen for some reason or other in a grand ordained plan? Our intent here is to have you understand the ultimate freedom you have to choose anything and everything, that no one choice is either somehow intrinsically better than another or is incapable of being overridden by a new desire and a new choice.

So let’s look at who or what made those prior choices that define everything you experience, and when they made them. And through all of that, let’s see if we can get you to a clear understanding of the ultimate freedom that is your birthright and set you squarely on the path to joy, because joy is what it’s all about.